Lumped together are five deadly character expressions: malice, deceit, hypocrisy, envy, slander.
We are instructed in blunt terms to put these away, meaning to eliminate them from our behavior.
Sadly, in social media especially, the fifth and last one -- slander -- is all too common.
This needs to be corrected.
Avoiding the slippery slope of slander
What is slander? It’s spoken or verbalized libel. Libel means to malign.
To be a little more precise, the American Heritage Dictionary offers these definitions for both terms:
- Slander: “Oral communication of false statements injurious to a person’s reputation. A false and malicious statement or report about someone.”
- Libel: “A false publication, as in writing, print, signs, or pictures, that damages a person’s reputation. The act of presenting such material to the public. The written claims presented by a plaintiff in an action at admiralty law or to an ecclesiastical court. See Synonyms at malign.”
Just recently I saw this meme posted on Facebook (I overlaid the warning text to discourage further sharing):
The posting declared, “STILL worried about a Confederate Flag? This is in Dearborn Mi. Time to pull some heads out of some rear ends!”
The thing is it’s a slanderous, malicious fake. Despite this being pointed out to those who have posted and shared it, the lie boldly and arrogantly persists on Facebook and other social media. Posted by Christians!
But it’s a lie. It’s libel -- slander -- a false publication! A distortion. A misrepresentation. The sign does not exist.
The content of the meme was intentionally created to malign, to be hostile, to be malicious toward those who are followers of Islam.
Tossing the Golden Rule on the garbage heap
So let me say it again. The posting and sharing of the meme is libelous. It’s simply slander.
The word slander as translated from the original Greek in 1 Peter is defamation, which is defined as “To damage the reputation, character, or good name of by slander or libel.”
This meme just one example of dozens of such slanderous items that are posted by Christians on social media every day. And it needs to stop.
It’s sinful. It’s hurtful. There is no good, biblically supportable defense for posting such damaging piffle.
In fact, this meme checks off at least 4 of the 5 sins cited in 1 Peter 2:1: It’s malicious, deceitful, slanderous -- and it’s hypocritical for a Christian to post such garbage.
Is it any wonder believers get so much hostility thrown back in our faces? It’s time we started doing a little cheek turning and aggressively living out the golden rule.
Three times is a charm
When studying the Bible, it’s a known truth that when something is mentioned 3 or more times, that’s a good indication that it’s a serious issue. In other words, we would do well to pay attention and take corrective action as needed.
In addition to the 1 Peter reference, here are a few more biblical references to the problem of slander:
- Matthew 5:19 -- For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander” (ESV).
- Mark 7:20-23 -- “And he said, ‘What comes out of a person is what defiles him. For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person’” (ESV).
- 2 Corinthians 12:20 -- “For I fear that perhaps when I come I may find you not as I wish, and that you may find me not as you wish--that perhaps there may be quarreling, jealousy, anger, hostility, slander, gossip, conceit, and disorder” (ESV).
- Ephesians 4:31 -- “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice” (ESV).
- Colossians 3:8 -- “But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth” (ESV).
- 1 Timothy 6:4-5 -- “...he is puffed up with conceit and understands nothing. He has an unhealthy craving for controversy and for quarrels about words, which produce envy, dissension, slander, evil suspicions, and constant friction among people who are depraved in mind and deprived of the truth, imagining that godliness is a means of gain” (ESV).
Yep, that’s at least three.
Lazy is as lazy does so don’t be!
I know some who post items they aren’t sure are true or not. Their claimed motivation is to “spark a dialogue” or “get feedback” from friends about its veracity.
This is both lazy and irresponsible.
When you post something you are automatically viewed as supporting or believing in the truthfulness and content of what you post.
If it’s some kind of distortion or outright deceit, then you are accountable for passing along a lie, a slander, a falsehood.
With so many trustworthy resources available at our fingertips, there is zero excuse for not taking the time to research what you want to post.
But if you’re just too lazy and aren’t sure if something is true or not, and don’t want to do the research, then just don’t post it.
If you do post something and then are told by others it’s wrong -- take it down! Leaving it up is a tacit endorsement.
Believers who knowingly or lazily post slanderous or erroneous items damage the cause of Christ and hurt the reputations of all Christians. It makes us all appear stupid and mean.
Working hard for the Devil
In John 8, Jesus is confronted by the Pharisees and challenged on some moral issues. He responds by schooling them on grace and truth. In verse 44, he pulls no punches when he declares to them, “You are of your father the devil, and your will is to do your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, and has nothing to do with the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies” (ESV).
Satan is the father of lies. He is the tireless accuser (Revelation 12:10).
When we post defamatory, untrue, misleading, accusatory, erroneous, insulting memes and articles on social media, we are expressing the character of Satan, and in no way being Christ-like.
It’s the same as being Satan’s mouthpiece!
Applying simple gracious wisdom
This is something believers need to take very seriously.
There are right and better ways to express our disagreement and displeasure without being dysfunctional or damning.
In the 1930s, Christian businessman Herbert J. Taylor, developed a simple test that can easily be applied against any potential post you want to share.
Taylor and his company were at a crisis point. He was concerned that employees “think right and do right” and that executives “set policies for the company that would reflect the high ethics and morals God would want in any business.”
At his desk he prayed for guidance and then wrote down what came to him which he then labeled “The Four-Way Test.”
This is a test we each should apply to everything we want to share in social media:
- Is it the truth?
- Is it fair to all concerned?
- Will it build goodwill and better friendships?
- Will it be beneficial to all concerned?
If the answer to all four questions is not a resounding “Yes!” or what you want to post is counter to Scripture or biblical truth, simply don’t post or share the information or item.
Just don’t. Period.
Love means being able to say you’re wrong & you're sorry
If you have posted hateful and slanderous memes and links, it’s time to take them down, and then go one step further.
You need to apologize to those you have attacked. And to those who have viewed your posts.
This step is essential.
In her excellent book, Total Truth, Nancy Pearcey laments, “When the only form of cultural commentary Christians offer is moral condemnation, no wonder we come across to non-believers as angry and scolding.”
As bad or worse than moral condemnation is slander and it’s kin.
Sharing these kinds of lies puts forth a very ugly and distorted image of Christ, the Christ we are supposed to be reflecting and representing to those around us.
Jesus admonishes us saying, “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:12-13, ESV).
Sometimes, laying down our own life is as simple as not posting something hateful.
It’s time for Christians to start being truly Christ-like on social media and stop working for the devil.
Do you agree or disagree? Why? What are your suggestions for expressing disagreement in a godly, loving manner? Share your thoughts in the comments!